I was asked to contribute to an article at Dame inspired by the Netflix original show, The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On.
I had heard of the show, but didn’t binge watch it until AFTER I contributed to this article. (My opinion didn’t really change after I finally did watch it, though.)
Essentially, I explained that boundaries are limits that we hold ourselves to. Ultimatums are expectations we put on others. And while boundaries preserve relationships, ultimatums threaten them.
Read the article
Illustration by Sophi Gulbrants
You can read the full article here. And thank you to Xenia Ellenboger for reaching out to me!
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